Litigation is never fun for anyone except attorneys who love the courtroom. Litigation certainly never makes parents or spouses better friends, especially after a trial, where the court determines the outcome of your custody and financial situation. Finding a resolution that works for you, your spouse and your children can be done relatively quickly and cheaper than litigation when both parties are willing to negotiate and compromise in order to control their own outcome.
Separation Agreements are an effective way to resolve your outstanding issues at the time of separation or as close thereto so that everyone knows what to expect and can plan accordingly. Separation and divorce are not required to be nasty feats, and a separation agreement can make sure that does not happen. A separation agreement should be detailed and specific so that your rights are protected later, and the agreement can be enforced if it is not followed. While weddings are titled “the happiest days,” the separation date and/or divorce process does not have to earn the title of the “worst day” either.